21 June 2022

And they are gone

 They left this afternoon. Thank God!!!! No, honestly it was a great weekend. I love my step-son and my sister-in-law is awesome. It was interesting though, some things came up that I wasn't sure would ever be addressed. Like how hard their family is on people. Hmmm.... They have never really accepted me into the family and we've been married 32 years. They still call his ex their sister-in-law even though we have been married and together for longer than they ever were. It's absurd. They pass judgements like they are all superior and shit when they aren't. Two of them are widowed and now dating and sleeping with them without being married - the horror!!!!  Anyway, as I said in my last post, this weekend gave me a lot of opportunity to work on my mindfulness and my responses to things and it's all good. It is what it is. They have lost a lot of time with their brother because of their judgements and that is their loss. I just feel sorry for my husband because he loves his family and misses his sisters. Me, I could care less one way or the other, but I want my husband to be happy. 

Anyway, they are gone and the house is quiet. How nice. I did go to the gym this morning. I was going to work out this afternoon but I didn't and probably won't. It's nice to just relax and destress. 

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